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Archive of "Thoughts" Category
Some unformed thoughts on relationships
Relationships are like the vein that God has his people in right now. A vein because veins bring blood back to the heart. So much has been said and done in the name of God and the church that has moved a long way away from God’s heart. He’s using relationships as the vehicle – the vein – to move people back toward his heart. For example, I believe completely in God’s power to heal, transform, deliver, create – real world, real life miracles. I believe. But I believe the church has made such a sideshow of the idea of his power that any expression or attempt toward that power has moved a very long way from his heart. Jesus expressed his heart in Luke 19: “The son of man has not come but to seek and to save that which is lost.” Examine all of your experiences with “moves” of God’s power… is that what they were about? Really?
Relationships are bringing us back to his heart. They are moving the blood from wherever it’s been and bringing it back to the source. It will go in there and be transformed and purified and sent out to bring life to the whole body.
The relationships we have with people are the relationship with have with God. They do not “represent it” – they are not “impacted by it” – they are it. If I can’t be real with a person I call my friend because I’m afraid of what he’ll think of me then it is because I am not real with God for the same reason. I think I am fooling my friend with my phony attitudes and my attempts to control his perception of me just like I think I’m fooling God by my religious allegiance and strict adherence to the rules of my Christianity.
Jesus said that people will know we are followers of his by the way we love one another. Not by the way we claim to love him, but by the way we love one another. Our relationships with each other tell the world whether or not we know Jesus. John asks, “How can you claim to love God whom you have not seen if you do not love your brother who you have seen?” (1 John… I’m paraphrasing from chapter 4).
I want so much for people to like me. I do things and say things in hopes of making people like me. But the ugly reality is, I know everything about me and I don’t like me. This is what I do to God. I perform in hopes that he’ll like me… Right now, I don’t want to click “Publish” because I’m afraid that if you read this, you won’t like me anymore.
I am only beginning to have genuine relationships with other people when I accept that before I made my attempts to get God to like me, he was already loving me extravagantly… *click*
Finally Following
The majority of my “Christian life” has been spent acting as though Jesus is gone. Think about the original followers who heard him say, “Apart from me, you can do nothing.” Then he left them.
So how important must his presence be? Not what we usually call his presence – what I’ve allowed to pass for his presence for far too long – but his actual life-transforming right here-ness. The people he specifically selected and spent three years training and living with were not qualified or authorized or even capable of doing stuff without him and then he left them.
I’ve lived so much of my life as though I have to work around that abscence. It only now occurs to me to describe it like this. It’s like I’ve lived believing that since he’s not here and I can’t actually follow him, my time must be filled by many other things. As if by doing these other things, I’m showing Jesus how willing I would have been to follow him if I were around back then. Cramming my life with religious rituals and ceremonies took the place of walking behind him and listening to his words.
I have missed the fundamental purpose of the receiving of the Spirit – reunion with Jesus. He promised the Spirit so that we wouldn’t be without him (“He takes of what is mine and gives it to you… I will not leave you orphans…”). For the first time in my life I believe that I am truly following him.
I’m not referring to any specific thing I’m doing – it’s just that I know whatever I am doing, I’m doing it with Jesus – behind Jesus. Whatever I think he’s asking me to do, I do. And when I can’t tell that he’s asking me to do anything, I’m content to do nothing. When I get it wrong, he corrects me. When I don’t get it, I ask him about what’s going on.
Jesus us here. He is doing things everyday and I’ve finally accepted his invitation to come along.
Valley of Dry Bones
This is a full-length (40 min) message out of Ezekiel 37. I was going to talk about this and how it relates to resurrection while in South Africa during Easter this year but never actually did. “Turn to Ezekiel 37,” became kind of a running joke there since I kept saying but never did read from it or talk about it. A friend asked if I would give that message that I never gave there, so here it is. If you’re seeing this on facebook, you’ll need to click the “original post” link to get to the embedded audio player.
Receiving Spaghetti-Os
I’m learning a huge lesson from an experience over lunch with my six year old son, Luke. If you’re looking at this on facebook – it doesn’t pick up the embedded audio. Click the “View Original Post” link below and you’ll find the audio.
Jesus Had Friends
This is a thought I’ve been stuck on for quite a while now. Just a short audio note I hope that you get a little something from. If you’re looking at this on facebook – it doesn’t pick up the embedded audio. Click the “View Original Post” link below and you’ll find the audio.
This Is The Day
Here’s another quick audio note on a recent meditation of mine. Hope it does you some good. If you’re looking at this on facebook – it doesn’t pick up the embedded audio. Click the “View Original Post” link below and you’ll find the audio.
Combining My Journals
Some of you know that I have been keeping (well, "keeping" is an overstatement) two separate web journals for some time now. The ridiculousness of this idea has finally dawned on me… I know, I am slow to catch on, but don’t forget that I’m from Indiana. Anyway, here is the full content (entries and comments) from coastlandblog.com. Coastlandblog has now been decommissioned, but I might write something in this category from time to time, on this site. With that in mind, I’ve added a "CoastlandBlog Archive" section and an "RSS" subscription button to the sidebar.
If you see something in here that impacts you or inspires a comment, I’ll certainly still see it and will be glad to engage in the dialogue.
Peace.
Thinking About Evangelism
“One thing that Christians and non-Christians have in common is that they are both very uncomfortable with evangelism.” I am not sure who gets credit for that quote, but it is a good one.
Most of my experience with evangelism confirms that notion. For me, it has often been awkward and unfruitful. That was just my end of it! Think about how uncomfortable my “targets” must have felt. My experience over the past year and half, living an Outflow life and practicing Servant Evangelism has created such a drastic shift in that paradigm that I cannot help but get excited about sharing it. It is a radically different view of everything – following Jesus, people who do not yet follow Jesus, church, the Gospel, evangelism, everything!
At the end of Conspiracy of Kindness, by Steve Sjogren, there is a list of 29 thoughts about evangelism. The book is fantastic but really, it is worth the cover price just to get this list. The items outline the base knowledge and expectations that a person carries into any attempt at evangelism. Imagine reading the list, learning each principle and then saying, “Okay, now that I’m thinking straight on this, I can start reaching people.” Does that make sense?
For example, point #20 is:
Because of irrational fears, the average evangelical Christian has no plans to participate actively in evangelism.
That is true, isn’t it? We are not exactly sure how it will happen, but we are sure that if we were to start talking to people about Jesus it would be painful and embarrassing. Many of us have anecdotal evidence to advance those fears. Those fears drive us deeper and deeper into a Christian culture that does not open itself to outsiders. That is exactly what I have done for many years of my Christian existence. I always made myself feel better by thinking that I would share my faith with someone if God “brought someone across my path.” If I hope anything can be accomplished in the whole realm of Christiandom, in my lifetime it is that we completely rid the universe of that stupid phrase, “bring someone across my path!” That thinking and praying is an enemy of the Great Commission. Jesus says, “Go…!” In other words, get yourself onto their path.
Another point on the list at the end of Conspiracy of Kindness is #7:
Church life, spent in the presence of Christians only, produces saints who are neither friendly nor openhearted to outsiders.
Yikes! I have to accept responsibility for that one too. Without even realizing it or wanting it, I used to have an aura of religion about me that kept people at a distance. Not too long ago, I put myself on a mission to read and reread the words of Jesus. I was not even out of Matthew before I noticed that Jesus seemed to relate the easiest with the types of people that I had the hardest time being around. I have written about some of my “Pharisee Attitudes” already.
A big shift in my thinking came as I began to change what I valued and measured when it comes to evangelism. If you define evangelism, presenting the Gospel to the point that a person either makes a commit to Jesus or begins attending your church then, yes. It is intimidating and it is very difficult to pull off within the context of your daily life. If I have to wait for opportunities to present the Gospel and actually walk someone through the process of conversion in order to get involved in evangelism, I won’t be able to do it very often at all. How often is the setting actually right for that level of conversation and interaction with people? I would say next to never if we are talking about strangers or folks we barely know. If I change what I am looking for in my approach to evangelism, all kinds of new doors and opportunities open to me.
1 Corinthians 3:5-8 “After all, who is Apollos? Who is Paul? We are only God’s servants through whom you believed the Good News. Each of us did the work the Lord gave us. I planted the seed in your hearts, and Apollos watered it, but it was God who made it grow. It’s not important who does the planting, or who does the watering. What’s important is that God makes the seed grow. The one who plants and the one who waters work together with the same purpose. And both will be rewarded for their own hard work.” (New Living Translation)
I have been using this passage to renew my thinking about evangelism. Evangelism occurs within a process. Paul compares it to the growth of a plant – from seed planting, to watering and nurturing, ultimately to the growth of fruit. If only God makes it grow, then why should I worry about the particular place in the process I might hold? After all, who is Scott? Just get involved in some way! When I am not necessarily looking to take a person from zero to fully committed to Jesus, the stress melts away and I am free to get involved in the process.
My value and measurement for evangelism is not just about leading people to the point of “praying the prayer.” Now, I am just interested in scattering the seeds. The only way to get a harvest is to reap the fruit of the planted seeds. Sometimes, I discover that seeds have already been planted and my role is to water what is starting to grow. There have even been times of seemingly instant fruit – times that, I come along at the very end of this long process within a person’s life. My act of service or kindness is that last touch as God gives the increase.
If I look for simple ways to fling the seeds of God’s love and grace, there is never a shortage of opportunity.
The Kingdom of God is Like… Another South Africa Update
Jesus started so many stories by saying, “The kingdom of God is like…” This trip to South Africa has been an invitation to take part in one of those stories. I have come to a wonderful state of dependence since writing my last update from South Africa. Unless someone feeds me, I do not eat. Unless someone comes to get me, I have no way of getting around. Unless someone is willing to take me in, I have nowhere to sleep. Maybe that doesn’t sound so “wonderful” to you, but trust me, it has been perfect! Stress has been melting off my life since I landed here, nearly 3 weeks ago. I am learning to appreciate Jesus’ words about “take no thought…” If only I could learn to see my life so completely in his hands, as I have come to see it in the hands of my South African hosts.One amazing experience has been the Easter Camp with Fountain Vineyard. This was the twenty-third Easter these incredible folks have packed up trucks and trailers and cars to spend five days in tents and sleeping bags, come hellish heat or high water. They’ve refined the whole endeavor to quite a high art – the campsite is nothing but a school’s soccer stadium when they arrive, but by Thursday there is electricity, hot water, shelter from the elements and plenty of great food. Don’t get me wrong… it is certainly still camping, but they do all they can to make it comfortable. Nothing can burn away the masks and get us down to who we really are like sleeping outside in the rain, showering in the presence of guys you just met and sharing toilets with four hundred other people. It has been said that the only thing worse than having diarrhea is trying to have it quietly in a public bathroom. I concur.
Nothing could have prepared me for Easter Camp. What I mean to say is that no one could have described the sense of love, acceptance, belonging and community that I enjoyed this Easter. In fact, I wonder if it is even possible to understand until experienced… I felt as though I were literally living in the Kingdom of Heaven. There were no walls, no barriers, no hindrances – nothing to stand in the way of connecting with people – nothing to keep us from loving one another and being loved in return. I think Dave Pedersen is among the very few (very few!) genuine Apostles I have met, and his calm, compassionate nature reigned tangibly throughout the camp.I was the speaker for the evening meetings, Friday night, Saturday night and Sunday night. I talked about our willingness to be broken open so that the life of Jesus within us can escape and touch the people around us. I
cannot describe the meetings any other way than to say that there was an impartation. Far beyond mental ascent to an idea, I could see people’s hearts opening and their spirits lunging to grab this concept and make it their own. God is up to something in South Africa! During the morning and evening meetings people were released from demonic oppression, people were physically healed, people received emotional recovery, some were filled with the Holy Spirit. It was the fullness of the Body of Christ at work and on display.I have also been in one of the world’s surfing capitals, Jeffrey’s Bay, and one of the most naturally beautiful places on earth, Knysna. In both places, God seemed to breathe fresh air into the rooms. People began to understand that Outflow Evangelism is something doable, practical and powerful. When we open ourselves to be used by God to do “small things” with “great love,” the world begins to change.
News from South Africa
In the words of the late, great theologian, Bruce Lee (Enter the Dragon)
It is like a finger pointing to the moon… don’t concentrate on the finger or you will miss all that heavenly glory!
Since March 29, I have been “the finger” in South Africa pointing to “the moon” of living in the Outflow. My prayer has been that people would not see me (the finger) but that they would be able to catch a glimpse of the true heavenly glory of flinging seeds of service, love, kindness and generosity. Lord, let Scott be forgotten and let Jesus be remembered!
As I type, I am completing the first leg of this trip. I’ll be flying out of Johannesburg (or JoBurg, as I am now authorized to call it) and landing in Port Elizabeth to spend Easter with the folks at Fountain Vineyard later today. I truly believe that God is up to something in South Africa!
On Saturday, March 31, I led an Outflow Mini-Conference at Valley Vineyard. The response was amazing! Not only did people really “get it,” but they were naturals at “doing it.” We went into a new housing community, still under construction, and gave away chocolate Easter eggs to demonstrate the kindness of God. During the morning discussion I was talking about the value of the seed and that when we shift our focus from getting people to “pray the prayer,” to simply flinging the seed miraculous things can happen. I had no idea how those words were about to be proven! The idea of giving something that people would like to have (chocolate eggs), for free was astounding to most of the people we met. One family asked the group who handed them Easter eggs if they could give their lives to Jesus right there in their home, or did they have to wait for church the next day… Sure, you can give your lives to Jesus right here! There were literally dozens of stories from that one afternoon of seed flinging. God is up to something in South Africa. The best part was when we came back to the church to share stories and discuss what we’d experienced. The room pulsed with energy and the presence of the Spirit. People were already moving beyond “Servant Evangelism” in their thinking and sharing ideas about getting back into that community in powerfully simple ways. My heart was singing with joy because it was pretty clear that “the finger” had not gotten in the way of the true heavenly glory of living spontaneous, Outflow lives.
The next day, Sunday April 1, I spoke at another great church, Hillside Vineyard. God’s presence was so heavy and tangible during worship, the tears poured from my eyes despite my efforts to look "put together" and like America’s official Outward-Focused Ambassador. It was, again, beyond my ability to describe. I have never known the kind of weight and burden (but in a good way) that I have experienced while talking to the people here. There seems to be such a spiritual imperative, such a now is the time mandate on this Outflow message. Gavin, the Team Leader from Valley Vineyard, said on Sunday night that he saw a picture of a giant fan, moved into position by the Holy Spirit. Then he saw the Church in South Africa taking fistfuls of seeds and flinging them into the rotating blades of the fan. The implication being that if we will generously, recklessly scatter the seeds we’ve been given, God will blow them in the right direction.
Of course, there has been plenty of fun too. Check out this picture of me petting one-and-a-half year old lion cubs… They would never let you do this in the US!
